I’m just a normal girl who go through this kind of struggles when it comes to relationship. It’s really hard for me to open up things to someone I love because I tend to keep it myself and let it pass. Less drama, less arguments and I don’t want my partner to put it on the other way around, but I guess it won’t work everytime. Time to speak up for myself. And yes, girls will always be girls.
Today, I’ve received a really great words from a close friend saying this…
"That’s real love. I’ve come to realize na hindi dahil may mali sakanya iiwan mo siya. Real love is kahit may mali sakanya hindi yun magging dahilan para magbago lahat. For the simple reason na dahil sobrang mahal mo sya, ikaw yung pinakaunang tao na maniniwala na kaya niyang magbago. You don’t hope na he’ll change, you’ll believe that he will change." - Mary Danielle Jacobo
This is so true. Love should be greater above all. Love will always be on top no matter what. We make mistake… Yes. But its our choice whether to stay and love more or let go and embrace the pain then move on. As we age, we should be more mature and think accountable ahead with what will be the outcome of all the decisions we are making.
It can be a temporary emotion so we shouldn’t decide on a temporary basis because the outcome would be like indefinite pain and worst…. regret.
Unless it is not worth keeping anymore then think twice.
But for me, I’m 101 percent sure that love should be greater above all. I always believe in this.
And this love changed me.
It was a special day, but it didn’t feel like it is.
Hi dear Tumblr!
It’s been a while since my last entry. I know my timeline was flooded by most of my instagram post. (Sorry about that)
Actually right now, I’m about to sleep.
So what to write? I don’t have any subject in mind right now so I will just update about what’s going on me recently.
Well, its been almost three months since I left the Philippines (my home country) for work here in Singapore.
I will not go into details so apparently, Was living alone now… :) :(
Why happy and sad face?
I’m HAPPY because its a rare opportunity to work abroad especially at my age with just one year experience working in my home country but God is good. He blessed me so much though there were challenges and obstacles before I got here.
And I’m SAD because I need to leave my family and friends back home. To think that SG is not that far in PH, ofcourse its really different being away with your loved ones. The adjustments and everything… it sucks though but I know it’ll be worth it.
My friends asked me why did I chose to work abroad?
Actually, to tell you honestly…
After I graduated from college it never came into my mind that I will chose to work overseas as early as now. No plans and no definite time. It just happened. I just woke up one morning that I want to step forward. I made up my mind completely and ask God for guidance and let him do whatever plans he has for me.
And one day, I made a move and I’m very determined that I will make this happen because this is what I want.
I am a dreamer but more of a doer.
When I want something I always find a way to make it happen. I know that it will never be easy living alone and to withstand with your decision. You can step backward to refresh but you can’t never go back. There were times that I need my family beside me but this absence made me realized how to treasure them most since I’m away. I learned how to be independent more. How to handle my finances well. Providing everything by yourself without relying. I am really glad that I get to experience this early. I mean, for the future if I’ll have my own family it won’t be so hard to handle. :p
My stay so far in Singapore was good. I love the mode of transportation here especially when I’m going to work. Not too stressful but very convenient. As for the food, my favorite so far is Chicken Rice. :) Hehe! And others are salted bean and red bean not to mention that I am a certified bean lover.
I am missing PH though. The traffic, noise, the places I’m used to be in and special mention is SM Manila, the only mall that I’ve memorized. lol!
Thank God for the wifi and social net sites and apps. I can easily communicate with my loved ones faster.
I guess I’ll cut everything here for now. Till next time tumblyyy.
Good night. Sweetest dreams.